Trainings We Like

@RichardWright: Teaching Boys Consent Culture

Excerpt from
“Rehearsing Consent Culture: Revolutionary Playtime”

from the upcoming anthology: “ASK: Building Consent Culture”
edited by Kitty Stryker, to be published by Thorntree Press in late fall 2017.

“Hey. Wassup. Can I talk to you?”

Nonplussed, she kept looking at her cell phone.

“Hey. I’m talking to you. Wassup?”

She blankly swiped something on her phone, unfazed.

“Aaiight. It’s like that. Cool. Well, maybe you will wanna talk to me when you see that I got video of when you jumped into the pool and your bikini top fell off.”

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Pledges

Lightning Bolt Self Defense Training (1/17/17, Oakland CA)

If you’re in the SF East Bay, join us for Lightning Bolt Self Defense Training

Tuesday, January 17th
7:30am – 9am
500 El Embarcadero, Oakland (between Grand and Lakeshore)

Trainers: Nanea, Bridget, Uke:, Laura

This training will take place in public, and is open only to people who do *not* identify as cisgender men.

However, it is not open to all women.

For example, it is not open to the Oakland Mayor; Chief of Police; Hillary Clinton; former District Attorney Nancy O’Malley; Janet Napalitano; or any police officers.

Cis men may be enlisted to perform auxiliary roles. (Email contact@lightningbolt.vision if interested.)

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@MaxAirborne: Buckling Down and Reaching Out

The lightning bolt, for me, symbolizes both the energy of our collective power and my personal commitment to spend this year doing everything I can to build our individual and collective strength, resilience, resistance, and ability to survive, thrive and be truly “in it together.”

http://www.lightningbolt.vision

Here is some of what getting ready means for me right now:

+ Spending time with my beloved disability justice community. Learning to listen to and trust the wisdom of the body. Learning to value, appreciate and know the body itself before the capitalist idea of it. Learning to honor the needs of the body in the ways I show up, and similarly honoring the ways other people show up. Listening to and learning about disabled histories and realities. Committing to centering disability, disabled people and disability justice.

+ Participating in bystander intervention training with friends (there’s a short webinar version from Hollaback a few times in January).

+ Ongoing exploration of white conditioning, its harmfulness and how to heal from it. Currently meeting with a group of 5 to do the “Healing from Toxic Whiteness” training.

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@Kloncke: Medic Training and Earthquake Kit


it’s 2017, i’m feeling strong, and about to get stronger.

this lightning bolt signifies, for me, that this will be the year i prepare, in community, for natural and political disasters. preparation looks different for all of us, but for me it includes:

+ make an earthquake kit; create a plan with house and neighbors.

+ take a self-defense class; exercise to feel happy and agile.

+ join an in-home screening of “Deacons for Defense.”

+ encourage all masc-of-center friends to do anti-patriarchy work.

+ research existing alternatives to calling the police, since they make things more dangerous for people of color, people with disabilities, etc. (shoutout to Oakland Power Projects for doing this work.)

+ learn basic medic skills from People’s Community Medic

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